The last few weeks have been pretty tough for me, honestly. I feel as though I'm in a constant internal battle about if I'm happy or if I'm unhappy. Of course that sounds quite dramatic, and I don't mean it to be. But I think to best respresent the experience I'm having, I'd like to be honest. There are so many neat opportunities that I've been able to be part of here, so many wonderful people I've met, so many once-in-a-lifetime experiences in China that I am grateful for. But at the end of the day, I'm far away from home and completely out of my comfort zone. I think it's normal to feel this way on international assignments, but it really hit me after my last post how much I miss home. And how much I love it here. Again, that strange contradiction.
One of the most perfect ways to feel more at peace with being away is when one of your best friends comes to visit! I was so lucky to have had Sara come for the last ten days. She came at a great point for me - I'm starting to feel like I know Shanghai and want to show off how great it is here, but I also feel a bit fragile over missing home. What a remedy. We had such a blast - because we did so much, I'm going to split the last two weeks between two blog posts. So here goes the first one - Shanghai adventures and Xi'an.
Picking Sara up at the airport was surreal. I was elated. I did tell her that she did me no favors by having such dark hair - it made locating her in the sea of people who are mostly Chinese that much more difficult! So if any of my blonde friends want to visit, please feel welcome ... We greeted her with a sign (in Chinese, of course), a balloon and two Chinese beers to celebrate.
We spent Sara's first full Shanghai day exploring parts of the city and attending a local festival. The weather wasn't great. The next day was a bit better, so we decided to head to Yuyuan Gardens. This is a nice part of town with old temples and beautiful grounds. Not a lot in Shanghai is too old, but the Gardens are (and quite lovely, too). The area around the Gardens is the real attraction - there are little stalls with vendors selling everything you can imagine. This is where you can get some legit bargains and practice your haggling skills. There were way too many people, but we had fun looking around. In the middle of the area is a neat tea house - Huxingting - with a zig-zag bridge meant to confuse any evil spirits trying to get in. Here we are with the house in the background:
That night, we decided to head to Pudong to take in gorgeous views of the skyline. We went to a bar on the 91st floor of the tallest building in Shanghai - the World Financial Center (the bottle opener looking building I posted a pic of previously). Wow, what an experience! Sara and I sat at a table right on the window overlooking the city. Quite impressive:
I was also lucky to have another friend in town for work a few days last week. I know Jessica through GenNext. She, Sara, Holly and I headed to an acrobatics show one evening called ERA. We had heard it was cool (and a bit like Cirque du Soleil), and we were not let down!! There were amazing feats of acrobatics (like dozens of gymnasts tumbling all over the floor through little hula-hoop looking rings at various heights). My favorite, and possibly the act that gave me the most anxiety, was the finale. Eight motorcycles came out on stage and one by one entered a metal sphere-shaped cage. They drove in circles around the cage, narrowly missing each other. I was nervous when two were in the cage, so with eight I could barely look. Completely amazing! Here are pics from the website showing those two acts, and here we are after the show:
Another night brought us to the Bund to look around and have dinner on the rooftop terrace of New Heights. It was awesome. Here we are just before heading to dinner:
On Thursday, we got up super early and headed to the airport. We flew to Xi'an, which is more toward the central part of China, in an effort to see the terra-cotta warriors. It was a bit of a pain - long flight there, long taxi ride to the site, etc. - but the warriors were really cool! Emperor Qin had an army of terra-cotta soldiers, horses, etc. created to protect his mausoleum in about 200BC. He ended up being the first Emporer of all of China and was responsible for uniting many lands under one rule. The warriors were found again in 1974 when locals were trying to dig a well. The story is pretty amazing, and the terra-cotta figures are impressive. There are over 7,000! Here we are in the fake photo zone (ha, such a tourist trap but we loved it!) and here is a pic of the actual excavation dig (which, by the way, still continues to be excavated today - we got to see people continuing to dig):
From Xi'an, we headed directly to Beijing. I will fill you in on all that we did there in my next post. Unfortunately, only I would bring a camera with a nearly-dead battery to the Great Wall without realizing (umm, really?), so I will wait until Sara gets back to the US so I can upload some of her camera pics here!




